Who am I? How do I define myself?

I believe in the creativity of the human potential to solve more problems than it creates. I believe in the richness of human inter-connection and the power of its meaning. I am not religious and I don`t believe in faith, destiny or inborn purpose however I have been raised Christian and I recognize the way of love, caring, sharing and the generally good values and morals traditionally taught under religious guidance. I believe in the hidden beauty in every aspect of life, as everything has several facets which not all are pretty, I try to focus on the aspect that makes it beautiful and interesting, rather than ugly and boring. I believe that the strongest existing human connection is love between two like minded intimate individuals, which intimacy include, overlap and extend beyond the physical level.

I value friends and families as the mean to connect to the world and the vast pool of human experience that can enrich our lives. I value knowledge as the mean to understand the world that surrounds us in its intricate details and grasp the complexity of life and death. I value honesty, authenticity, respect and intelligence... as core values to which I try to abide and surround myself with people sharing those values.

I know how the world works. I know computers, and software development is my career. I also like neuroscience and cognitive psychology. I know how to change walls into doors and change obstacles into opportunity, being realistic but optimistic, looking backward only to learn how to better move forward. I know how to appreciate what I have and not to regret what I don't have. I know who I am, I know what I am not... and I know not to pretend to be somebody that I am not. I know who I want to be with and I know how not to waste time trying to be in a relationship that does not go anywhere. I know also that relationship is sometimes difficult, takes time and energy and that you need to nurture it so it can blossom to a deep and fulfilling level.

I am interested in computers, science and knowledge in general. I like to learn and understand how things works, how to use tools more efficiently, learn how people think and why they behave the way they do. I am interested in connection between things (and people), the connection and relationship being more important than the thing itself. I am interested in building a circle of friends and relationships with whom I can be myself completely, people with which I can connect truly on a level that we can exchange on any matters with understanding, respect and without judgement... people with whom I can connect, share, experience and grow with.

I dream of travelling, exploring and experiencing new and different things that is out of the ordinary, things that would expand my mind, bring me some insight or broaden my views of the world. I dream of someday being completely financially independent so as to be able to work full time on my own personal projects and go on an adventure of creativity and discovery, challenging my comfort zone and pushing further the boundaries of what I can do and what as ever been done. I dream of building a rich, meaningful and long lasting love relationship with someone that has similar beliefs, values and interests... someone with which we can both be ourselves, true, honest and authentic... live, share and explore the many aspects of life, love and experience the every beauty and preciousness of each passing moments.

Besides that, I'd describe myself as an introverted intuitive thinking perceiving (INTP), calm and quiet, yet social, friendly, warm, loving, romantic... I hopefully have many more qualities (or also otherwise imperfections) that just cannot be put into words... at least not in a compact profile description. I can barely call it compact by now, can I? You would have to discover them the traditional way, that is by getting to know me in person.

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